The Alzheimer's Society has called on George Osborne to use the Comprehensive Spending Review to fund greater access to care for tens of thousands of people with dementia.
This is long overdue.
But what struck me most was this astonishing fact:
'a quarter of people in hospital have dementia'
Is it any wonder that so many hospitals are struggling to cope, not only with the 25% of patients who have dementia but also with the rest?
Dedicated to my dear wife, who is still - recognisably and remarkably - the same person I have known and loved since 1995.
Sunday, 30 June 2013
Thursday, 20 June 2013
The importance of expectations
I have come to believe that the expectations that carers (family or paid care workers) have of people with dementia could be very important.
Some approaches to the care and treatment of people with dementia emphasise the need to convince people with dementia that they do not need to concern themselves in any way with anything at all. Carers are advised, for example, never ever to ask direct questions and never ever to contradict.
This advice is sometimes presented regardless of where the person is on their dementia journey. They could be at a very early point, recently diagnosed and still working. It doesn't seem to matter.
This is a key aspect of what is sometimes referred to as 'compassionate communication'. It might better be called the 'Don't worry your pretty little head about a thing' approach.
But it could be that this advice is not always in the best interest of people with dementia, even those like S who can do very little for herself. I have always asked her direct questions and continue to do so. Sometimes the questions have to be repeated, but if she understands the question she is usually capable of answering rationally. If I had stopped asking her questions when it was clear that she had dementia symptoms, would she have been able to respond to questions years later? I would not have known, and neither would anyone else. But I suspect that, as in so many other cases, it comes down to 'use it or lose it'. I am not making any criticism of any carer who has realised that the person they are caring for is no longer capable of responding to questions. Of course, anyone would eventually stop asking questions in this situation.
People sometimes find that when the person they care for goes into a care home or, worse, into hospital, there is a dramatic decline in their state of mind and their awareness. There could be any number of reasons for this but perhaps one reason might be the absence of expectations or, indeed, unrealistic expectations, on the part of the staff. We might surmise that the latter case is rarer.
The behaviour of people who do not have dementia is greatly influenced by the expectations of other people. I think there are good reasons for believing that that people with dementia share this characteristic, though clearly it will almost certainly diminish as the disease progresses.
Some approaches to the care and treatment of people with dementia emphasise the need to convince people with dementia that they do not need to concern themselves in any way with anything at all. Carers are advised, for example, never ever to ask direct questions and never ever to contradict.
This advice is sometimes presented regardless of where the person is on their dementia journey. They could be at a very early point, recently diagnosed and still working. It doesn't seem to matter.
This is a key aspect of what is sometimes referred to as 'compassionate communication'. It might better be called the 'Don't worry your pretty little head about a thing' approach.
But it could be that this advice is not always in the best interest of people with dementia, even those like S who can do very little for herself. I have always asked her direct questions and continue to do so. Sometimes the questions have to be repeated, but if she understands the question she is usually capable of answering rationally. If I had stopped asking her questions when it was clear that she had dementia symptoms, would she have been able to respond to questions years later? I would not have known, and neither would anyone else. But I suspect that, as in so many other cases, it comes down to 'use it or lose it'. I am not making any criticism of any carer who has realised that the person they are caring for is no longer capable of responding to questions. Of course, anyone would eventually stop asking questions in this situation.
People sometimes find that when the person they care for goes into a care home or, worse, into hospital, there is a dramatic decline in their state of mind and their awareness. There could be any number of reasons for this but perhaps one reason might be the absence of expectations or, indeed, unrealistic expectations, on the part of the staff. We might surmise that the latter case is rarer.
The behaviour of people who do not have dementia is greatly influenced by the expectations of other people. I think there are good reasons for believing that that people with dementia share this characteristic, though clearly it will almost certainly diminish as the disease progresses.
Thursday, 6 June 2013
The stages of dementia
I'm increasingly dubious about the 'Stages of Dementia'. The idea is that the condition can be broken down into stages. Typically each stage is allocated a list of symptoms. You check your cared for person's symptoms against a stage and then you know what stage they are at. Simples!
Except that when you speak to other carers or read what they have written you find that often people have a cluster of symptoms which might well include a few from each stage. If you raise this with a 'true believer' in the stages, they will tell you that you should only view the stages as a rough guide.
It's actually very, very rough. It seems to take no account of the fact that there are so many different kinds of dementia - possibly as many as there are people with dementia.
And I worry that if a carer is led to believe that the person cared for is in the 'late stages', they will treat them accordingly and this may become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
It's also interesting to me that there are a number of different versions of the stages floating about. And that they all seem to be based around odd numbers - 3 stages, 5 stages, 7 stages, never, you notice, around even numbers. It reminds me of the magical numbers of myths and fairy stories.
Except that when you speak to other carers or read what they have written you find that often people have a cluster of symptoms which might well include a few from each stage. If you raise this with a 'true believer' in the stages, they will tell you that you should only view the stages as a rough guide.
It's actually very, very rough. It seems to take no account of the fact that there are so many different kinds of dementia - possibly as many as there are people with dementia.
And I worry that if a carer is led to believe that the person cared for is in the 'late stages', they will treat them accordingly and this may become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
It's also interesting to me that there are a number of different versions of the stages floating about. And that they all seem to be based around odd numbers - 3 stages, 5 stages, 7 stages, never, you notice, around even numbers. It reminds me of the magical numbers of myths and fairy stories.